Friday, July 6, 2012

Summer To Do List

Well, summer is finally here and I have graduated from high school. It seems like just yesterday....I kid. I fricking hated that place. :D But I'm done and I'm off to Philadelphia this August for Temple!!! And I have decided to make a checklist of things to do.


1) Attempt to dye extensions. -- I wanted to make some pastel pink extensions for myself because I have an obesession with pink hair. But I wanted to also make a few for my friends before I head off to college so I'll have a lot to do.


2) Get into gyaru fashions -- I've recently been intrested in many gyaru fashions, particularly Kuronaba and Hime. I have to go shopping for college anyways so why not buy some fabulous clothing in the name of fashion? Plus with me hopping off to college, it'll be a lot easier to wear gyaru than lolita because I can pack so much more of it, no petticoats taking up space in the tiny closet. But it's been hard to find any Hime style clothes in plus size so


Big hair and makeup! I cannot resist.


3) DO SOMETHING!! - I have excessive laziness issues and need to get up my rump to do something, like craft or sew. Many crafts I'm excited to take on are from Magic Pearl Heart; Craft all the hime!!*0* And I'm excited for Mana Starre's Mickey Mouse ears tutorial. Or maybe I'll bake some more; I already made brownies and I am taking a cake decorating class.


4) Wear more fashionable clothing - Most of the time I wear something along the lines of "Pajama chic". Since I am off to college, I've decided to update my wardrobe. My favorite store is Forever 21, they have one of the greatest plus size sections that I have ever seen. It's cute and in trend which is something a lot of places don't seem to get. Big girls wanna look good too. 


5) Style my hair - I have a weave while my real hair is growing from some pretty harsh breakage. The problem is though if you pin a weave up, you see the braids underneath. So I am trying to figure out how to do more with it. Tight curls are fun to do though, they make me feel all bouncy and free. They also look pretty good after you give them shake and run through with your fingers.




So nothing too intensive but fun none the less..and I have a month and a half to do so. Time to get off my bum and get to work. I hope yo'll are having a great summer and I hope it stays that way :)


xoxo Beka


PS: Only one picture is mine and I hope you can guess which one. ;)

Friday, September 23, 2011

Senior Project Paper

I figured that with me going to start on alot of senior project....projects, I might as well share my actual paper with everyone. It's not great, I will warn you now. I wrote this in about a week with very basic notes because my teacher wouldn't understand this, most likely. I looked back at it, a whole year later, and I wonder....What the hell am I talking about? I literally took what I saw....an I don't even.. The paper is pretty good for someone who has no idea who the fashion is. It covers basics and doesn't really go all out. But I know alot more than I did when I wrote it and it suprises me how little I did know. Also, when you (Source #), ignore it. It's to match up with the actual research for the paper, which I did not post. So without further ado, I present my Senior Project Paper.


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Japan is full of items that we Americans use today. Anime, the Japanese form of a cartoon, ramen noodles, and most importantly, clothing. Sometimes, though, the clothing can branch out in to ways of life. Like our Goths and preps of our school system, these people have lives revolve around the clothing. Gyaru or gal fashion, Lolita, Fairy Kei, and Visual Kei all revolve around the clothing and, sometimes, it becomes a lifestyle. The best thing about the culture is that you don’t have to stick with one particular fashion; there are actually subcultures within the subcultures.

Gyaru or gal, the English translation for the word, fashion is an interesting type of subculture.  First and foremost it’s not cosplay, getting dressed up in costume or fashion for fun. And secondly, anyone can be Gyaru. It’s not limited to just Asians, or skinny girls. It can be big or small, short or tall. But it does get expensive with everything you need to do. Clothing, hair, shoes, accessories, nails, etc… You’ve got to take care of it on a regular basis. No one wakes up perfect looking. A shop girl interviewed by Universal Doll, a gyaru blog, spent 5 hours that morning getting ready which means she possibly got up at 4 in the morning to get ready.

Now up keep is a harder than it seems. Most people would think getting their hair done would be a trim. No, for gyaru girls hair must be done to a tee and is often bleached. Their hair is done every month for about 6000 yen to 16000 yen. Now that may not sound like a lot and honestly it wasn’t back when the economy was kicking. Then is might have cost 30 to 100 dollars. Now it’ll be about 70 to 200 dollars just for a haircut and dye. Nails are a different story. Most think that getting their nails done is just paint and maybe a bit of art. But to a gyaru gal it’s a whole lot more. It’s all about the art. All gals need the art for their nails, from sweet treats, such as lollipops and tiny cupcakes being glued on, to giant crystals in intricate patterns. But all of that gets really expensive so what do gals do? Coupons and lots of them, from magazines to websites, girls need them to keep up with all their needs for the sake of fashion. (Source 2). But even so, a gal grows up eventually and moves on to college. But she doesn’t have to get out of gyaru just because she’s older. She can attend Blea, a college and a high school that is supposedly called a gal school (Source 2).  There they can learn gal trades for future jobs such as nail art, hair styling, and even decoden. Decoden is the art of applying jewels, cabochons, and other items to different items. Some of the more popular items to deco are phone cases, jewelry boxes, and even nails. But even so all gals have one common goal; to become a shop girl. It’s most gyarus dream to be in apparel (Source 2).

But like all great subcultures, there are subtypes with in. One of a gyaru subtypes is called Hime Gyaru or Princess Gal. Hime means princess when translated from Japanese to English and that’s what the style tries to portray (Source 3). They’re influenced by the Rococo era of France European of royalty (Source 1). Another type, which would describe many high school girls, would be Kogyaru which is a girl who dresses gyaru even during school by wearing her skirt shorter, having dyed hair, and super loose socks. But people think that gyaru that is just for girls is wrong. Gyaruo is the male counterpart for the girls (Source 3).

But there are other fashions in line; Such as Lolita, which appeared around the 1980s (Source 6). Using influences from the Victorian of England and the Rococo era of France, they combine that elegance to make one doll like figure not slutty as the word connation may say because of Nobakov’s book (Source 6). Now there are many terms you need to know to be a lolita. There’s caplet, which is basically a small but elegant cape that’s used to cover your shoulders (Source 8). There are JSK which is the shortened abbreviation of Jumperskirt. Then there are OPS or One Pieces, which are like jumperskirts that can be worn without a blouse (Source 8). The big difference is that Ops usually have sleeves and a jumperskirt usually has just straps. But there are many normal  things such as bows, skirts, and coats. Coats in the lolita world are a bit different though. They’re heavier, longer, and flare out to accommodate the poufy skirt. But what gives the skirt the cupcake or a-line poof that you see in all lolitas? It’s a petticoat (Source 8) that’s made out of tulle or organza. Next part of lolita fashion is the shoes. All the brands release shoes in different styles but the basic shoe style is the Mary Jane (Source 8). But you need more to a lolita outfit than just a skirt and shoes. You need a blouse to bring together an outfit. Try to find something cute but elegant (Source 8). There’s also the use of hair accessories to complement an outfit. So as you can see, Lolita is an expensive hobby (Source 8).

Now like in Gyaru, there are subtypes. The first type to emerge was Gothic Lolita, which was created by Mana of Malice Mizer, a J-pop band. It references Western Goth fashion and also gives off the aura of the Victorian Goth (Source 8). My personal favorite is Sweet Lolita which is the most over the top of all the Lolita types (Source 6). But in contrast it’s also the most childlike with its pastel colors, bows, lace, and many frills (Source 6). Hime Lolita is a lot like Hime Gyaru but it incorporates all the elements of Lolita into it instead. Shiro and Kuro Lolitas are can be of any style as long as the shiro is an all white outfit and kuro is an all black one. Classic Lolita is more demure of all the styles, looking like a dress from a church or garden party with all the floral prints (Source 6). But while most dresses in the Lolita world have a cupcake shaped skirt, classic dresses have a more a-line shape to them. Sailor Lolita is inspired by the sailor style uniforms that many Japanese students wear (Source 6). Wa Lolita is influenced by the kimono, giving off the traditional Japanese feel (Source 6). A more difficult style to pull of is punk Lolita, incorporating all the elements of Eastern punk and Lolita (Source 6). There’s also the Guro or Grotesque Lolita and that sounds like the name, disgusting but still cute (source 6). And the newest style to appear on the Lolita scene is Pirate Lolita and yes….it’s exactly what you think it is. Take the poufy skirt and blouse and just put a historical and fantasy pirate outfits. If you think that Lolita is only for girls, well that’s also wrong. There’s a style that copies the younger boys like knickers and caps, calling this trend Ouji or Boystyle (source 6). Just remember that Lolita is not cosplay, costume play, or a costume in general!

Many lolitas can’t stand not having Lolita in their life. It’s not desperation; it’s just a love of the fashion. Sooner or later, it becomes their life and they become a lifestyle Lolita. And yes, just because you have a love for the fashion doesn’t mean you don’t have a life. Mostly you try to emulate the fashions’ beginnings in the Victorian and Rococo era with tea parties (Source 9) and other lovely crafts, such as embroidery. And as many lolitas live like this everyday, most choose to wear Lolita everyday. As mentioned before Lolita is an expensive hobby and to afford clothing that often is crazy. But one of the things to have is a strong petticoat that will stick with you through thick and thin (Source 9). Most lifestyle lolitas actually have blogs, talking about how they live their lives, making them beautiful everyday.

Now we move on to Fairy Kei, a style in my opinion that looks like Claries and Hello Kitty had a baby and that baby just threw up. It’s a mess of rainbows and girliness combined with an 80’s pop (Source 10). Sebastian Masudea, who opened the fairy kei stores of 6% Doki Doki and Nile Perch, is said to have ushered the style in (Source 10). Many of the clothing are from the American 80’s era of crazy colors and classic characters such as Barbie, Popples, and even My Little Pony (Source 11).

Visual Kei is our final fashion that we will cover. Now the “visual” aspects of things come from the emphasis on the appearance of the performer (Source 13). Many Japanese Rock bands or J-Rock bands have a lot of visual kei aspects such as wild costumes, weird and strange decorations, dyeing their hair, and even wearing makeup (yes even the guys) (Source 13). 
So in conclusion, there are many subcultures of America but when you look at a different country,

you realize that there are more than what you already have. So instead of wearing Emo or Goth, try

Fairy Kei or Gothic Lolita. Now you’re not limited to just these fashions. There are tons of other

subcultures that you can enjoy and love the life.

Ok...Blogspot messed up my spacing -__- Ru'.

Sunday, September 11, 2011

New Newsey News

Sorry for the horrid absence again, lets just say my self-esteem got in the way. Horrible self esteem + bad months = Not blogging. But I really shouldn't use it as an excuse and I'm sorry I left. But I have a list of news to share with you.

  • NEW STUFF! I went to San Fransico this summer and bought a few items, so look out for those in upcoming pics. I'll probably get them up as soon as I get home from school (doing this at 11:30 on a Sunday with incompleted homework).
  • Gotta love being a HS Senior! But that also means crazy shit is going on, like photos, SAT, applications, AP classes, etc. Lots of stuff and lots of people to get around.
  • Loving that Senior Project which the ENTIRE senior class has to do and pass in order to graduate. Mine is on Japanese Subcultures so I will start sharing the details and my progress with you. The first thing to do though is plan out things. Look out for a bunch of 'personal' style posts having to deal with it.
  • Now, if you don't know, I'm friends with Tori of Happy Unbirthday who also owns an etsy shop by the same name. She's a super nice gal and she's my mentor for senior project, so be on the lookout for her. Also she's convinced me to enter the realm that is TUMBLR! So here's mine ----> http://fashionfrillsandfluff.tumblr.com/  So enjoy the random posts of cute and weird. Also here's a link to Tori's ---->  http://happyun-birthday.tumblr.com/ Enjoy her cute/creepy pages.
And that's really it guys. Due to senior project, I shall be posting for once >.>; So this may actually turn into something. So I hope you enjoyed your break because I'mma about to take over your blogroll! MUAHAHAHAHA! And that's all the time I have for tonight, school and such. So goodnight all and hope you wake up in the morning feelin' like Winehouse (Forty points to the person that gets it).

Until I blog again,

Beka <3

Monday, January 24, 2011

My triumphant return!!

I posted a stupid challenge on livejournal about a couple of years back but was too lazy and broke to ever complete it. But now that I'm officially established as a sweet lolita... I dunno if I can do it. Now the year of the lolita challenge is this. I am going to attempt to wear every single lolita style ever thought of in one year. Now that my sound hard, it may sound easy, it may just sound crazy. But I never got around to it. Why? Everything else got in the way. Emotions went haywire for me and I might end up having a few posts about it.  But, I'm sad to say the challenge had failed. But this is not a time to be sad. No, this is a time to try work other things out. This is a year where something good will happen. Good things have already been happening, like my awesome french teacher and the fact that Micheal (my lovely bf <3) is always there to talk to. This is 2011. This is my year! This is the Year of the Lolita :3


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PS: You guys have probably wondered where I've been. Well >.>; Emotions were at it again. My school work got so stressful and I just...I just fell into this deep dark hole after the meetup with Tori. I tried to perk up again and I did see her before Christmas, which I shall post pics of later, but things were just not working out with me. Shit didn't just hit the ceiling, it was on the walls, all over the floor, in the food. It was a hot mess. If someone asks, I will type up the whole story but it was just a bad year 2010. But it's 2011 now. New semester. New boyfriend. New start! I have tons of new ideas and old ones that need to be worked on as well.

New ideas:
Get back into blogging - I think the reason I stopped blogging was cause I didn't have a schedule. You don't excatly need a schedule but it's good to have a routineish thing going for you. Helps you and your readers in my personal opinion.

Clean my room - Your probably wondering how that benefits you the readers. Well, my room is like many other beginner/lazy lolis room. You can see the floor which is a good thing but it's not to my liking. The drawers are kinda cramped up with loads of old vidoe games, books, test papers, etc. My new vanity, which I shall be eventually taking photos of, is cluttered up with makeup stuff. My special shelf on dresser is cluttered :( My poor dollies. This injustice will not be ignored!

Replica reviews - I....am plus sized. I am fluffeh. And I am down proud of that fact. BUT!!! Many brands don't get the whole bigger than 85 cm thing (looking at you AP with your tiny waist skirts). So many I buy replicas, like many a loli do to save on a bit of cash. There are, also, alot of plus sized girls who do wear lolita though by altering the items they recieve. I am to lazy to do that and if you think about it, I can get alot more for my buck even if it's less quality.


Brand dress = 280
Alterations = 45 - 90 depending on how severe and what needs done.
So your about 400 dollars and that's one dress. One dress of excellent quality and made to your size.
I however like to know that I can use that money and buy a replica, of lesser quality but still ok, and purchase more. Call me cheap but it's the way I think. Most places will charge your for plus sized items cause they're custom made and take a lot more time. CLOBBAONLINE has Fantastic Dolly replica up for $57.95 not including shipping. My guess, cause I have yet to inquire them, that the replica itself will cost about 10-30 dollars more. Qutieland doesn't offer the replica....yet. It probably will in the future but that's my guess. I will post a warning though. The Fantastic Dolly replica was orignially posted with bad lace on the Dream of Lolita website. While they have new photos up on the site, CLOBBA still has photos of the bad lace on the JSK and the OP. So be warned.

Speaking of replicas, I actually did get my Qutieland order in...on Halloween! Wore my new Wonder Cookie Jsk to a party. I haven't uploaded any pics from my camera in months. I should get on that. >.>

Stop being lazy so much - This...this is my Achilies heel. I'm constantly lazing around and need to stop. It's causing so many problems like weight gain :(  What I need is a hobby but haven't really found one yet. Maybe blogging shall be the cure?

Lose weight - This is what started the whole blog and I have yet to do jackshit. So it's time to get off my ass and start hauling it. Walking more, eating better foods, and even *shudders* working out with my mother. Yep, it's come to this point. Maybe I should join a gym or a class. I'll find something.

Tutorials - Well, I have been wondering how this was going to work so I decided to figure out what I can do. I can teach everyone how to clean their room :D Eh joke but I don't think there's a fun way to do so. Makeup is not my biggest thing but I can teach you what NOT to do with makeup. And there's always the fun crafts that all the others do as well. The only craft I can really tell you how to make is...well. how to make ruffles and aprons. Only the half apron though, not little heart at the top.

Other randomness - I looked over my past entries and I noticed that I never did my interview with Lucky. Well, to catch you up, college is going good for her. Many lolitas that will be attending college soon or in the future should be aware of what might happen, what will probably happen, and what will happen. Yeah, some things you can't avoid. I'm also making plans to go to Animazement soon so as soon as I have the tickets, I'll let ya know.

Well, that's about it. I'm back and I'm not going anywhere for awhile. It's good to be back, it really is. Typing like crazy for about an hour is just so much fun :D And really tiring on a school night. So I'll be back later in the week with something. So until then, stay awesome!

xoBeckyxo

PS. You know the drill, nothing is mine unless stated. geeze...

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Me and Tori - Crabtree Meetup :3

Well today was a fun day! I went out in lolita for the second time in my life to host my very own meetup. It's was in the Crabtree Valley Mall.  Me and my new friend Tori aka Marrisa (she has so many names o.o) just hung out like crazy and did all the girly things. I'm in ebony and she's in ivory but we're decked pink from head to toe. It was the funnest thing ever.

 We walked aroudn and looked at everything we could get our hands on. Claires, Wet Seal, Forever 21, you name it. We never did make it to the Cheesecake Factory cause so many people kept stopping us.


All in all it was the best damn thing to happen in September for me.

PS. Sanrio Suprises was giving out Lucky packs and I had to grab one. Lookit!


Before


After:

1 stuffed frog
1 neckalce
1 nail art stickers
2 hair bands
1 stamp
1 bento box (not pictured)

Best frigging day ever!!!!!!

Friday, August 20, 2010

Sorry...

Sorry about the non updating status in a long while. I've been stressing out over some internal and external problems. I will be able to blog as soon as a few things are over and I get back to my normal self... what ever that may be. So thank you for understanding and I'll update when my stress isn't so high.

PS. All NC lolitas, don't forget about the meetup at Crabtree Valley Mall on September 11, 2010. We will meet near Sanrio Suprises. The store is located near Popalops and the Food Court.

Saturday, August 14, 2010

Qutieland Problems

Well, it's offical. There won't be a review for Qutieland due to one thing. Apparently Paypal thinks that Qutieland has been working with fraudulent byers and won't let us pay. It even went as far as to suspend my mothers account for trying to pay them. So no Wonder Cookie Jsk....no Dreamy Dollhouse skirt...nothing. I am really sorry you guys. I did try but....it's not happening.

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Tiny wardrobe problems

Tiny wardrobe got you down? You have your inspiration but your inspiration but... so few clothes. Not to worry. There is a few ways to salvage it and make it look like you have a few new peices.

Sew - Sewing is cheap (depending on what your buying and where), it's fairly easy ( depending on what your doing), and it's fun. But lets just say you don't have the money to afford a ton of fabric to make that skirt. Well, instead, make some new waist ties to go with your skirt. Or a new head acessory.  You can pick cause it's your wardrobe.

Try on every single peice - That may be a weird way to make coords but it works. Put on colors that you wouldn't really put together. Tyr different combos of brands, socks, and even put a some other subculture twists on your style. Or even go over the top and raid your jewelry box for a crazy decora inspired look.

Thrift - When I go thrifting, I'm always looking out for weird but new things. I have a white pleated skirt that I plan on using for a school inspired lolita outfit. I just have to find some lace to put around the edge of the skirt. But you can find other cool stuff as well. Jewelry, fabric from sheets, and even cute accessories. There are even a few places that have items to lolify your living space.

Look at other coords - "But I don't have that dress/shoes/acessory/etc.." Yes you do. You just have to tweak what they do to fit with your wardrobe. Take this.




This picture is a simple coord. A skirt, a bluse, some shoes, socks, and a few accesories. Now your probably saying that you couldn't do it. Yes you can! You can make an outfit like that. "But I don't own a skirt." Turn you JSK or OP into one by wearing a jacket or blouse on the outside of it. "But I don't own those shoes" You don't need to. Just find a pair of simple shoes that you already wear for lolita and match them with your outfit. "I'm low on accesories" Well, so am I. But places like Claires and Icing usually have cute stuff for pretty cheap. You can also look at the craft or holiday sections in Dollar Stores. Some girls have found quite a few items in there.

So tell me, what has been your favorite thrifty find? Do you sew as well?
Until next time,
Beckers <333

Ps. My order has been confirmed with Qutieland and will probably be in September :( I was hoping for it sooner. Oh well.
Pss. As stated in the last post, I don't steal. If you want it down, just let me know.

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Inspiration....from where?

Bloggers, lolitas, artists, etc... everyone must draw inspiration from all around them. But some days you wake up and....nothing. Nothing inspires you. Nothing pops and says "HEY! Look at me!" But it happens to the best of us? So how do you get inspired? I know what I do...


Read other blogs - Yeah, yeah. That's kinda obvious but it's true. Sometimes one article can cause you to write a response or even go to a different topic. Sometimes they have tutorials for different styles or how to make a few items. Like F Yeah Lolita's tut on how to make waist ties into hairbows. It's a pretty neat thing but I'll never do it. Why? Cause I have a secret obsession with waist ties. I dunno, something about the bow on my back just makes me feel really special.



Pictues - My thing is just look at them and imagine the way you'd do things. Like if they wear pink and lavender coordinate, how would you do it? Would you coose the same colors or just pick one? Or maybe you'd do the same excat thing except in a different style? Or maybe the theme is just somehting you've always wished to do for an outfit. Pictures are worth a thousand words, and in this case a thousand words.



Music - Now this might be harder but to me, music is an inspiration among itself. When I hear christmas music, I immediately think of long sleeved blouses, extra pettis to keep out the chill, long bloomers, more one peices, etc... Lots of wintery items for the chilly loli. But when techno music dances up, for some reason I think of Angelic Pretty. Maybe it's the neonic colors and wild prints that make me think of a rave gone victorian. I dunno, it might be just me.



People watching - This could be argued as also looking at pictures but I digress. Pictures are made to look pretty while the person has a choice to be pretty or not. Just looking at people you can tell what fashions are in, who has the money to afford the real deal, and what a person is even like. Try it sometimes. Just go to a mall, park, or just a crowded place in general and stare at someone (But try to be discreet). You can tell so much from the way a person acts, talks, moves, and even dances.

So surely that must be it? No. we have one more MAGICAL....ok, not really magical but...it's awesome alright! There is one last thing you can get inspiration from.

Your wardrobe - Huh? My closet? Isn't that the problem I'm trying to solve, that I have no inspiration to wear anything in my closet?  Well that's your problem. Your looking at your wardrobe the WRONG WAY! Take my miniscule closet of lolidom. I have one blouse, two skirts, a petti, and a headbow. That's it. But do I cry....a little.....just kidding. I try and make the best of what I find and/or have. I have a new pair of OTK socks thanks to Target. And the wonderful extra fabric I have laying around makes a great mini bow pillow. You just gotta take your items from a different angle. You like pink like me? Well try lavender and pink! Or even pink and black. You see there are hundreds maybe even thousands of combinations just waiting for you in your closet.

So tell me, what inspires you the most? And what's your most prized peice of clothing?
Until next time,
Beckers <333

Ps. You know that I don't steal right? No pics are mine unless stated!!

Monday, August 9, 2010

Web Loli: Bed time.

So if your like most lolitas, you spend some  time on the internet. You might catch up on the latest styles, reading a scan of your favorite zine, or maybe your posting to Egl. But your still surfin the web. So what do you come across on the web? Maybe some sites like these:

Bed Curtians are to die for (I've wanted some sine I was little). Pink, somewhat sheer, and full of cuteness. *sighs* It would be a dream to havbe those. But usually, since they are for kids, they're made for the smaller beds. Some of the more classical or elegant lolitas out there might apperciate this. It seems to fit into a more regal perspective of things, don't you think?

Nightgowns ( as one of my commenters wrote) are something special for sleep that lolitas can wear. Now it gets REALLY hot where I live and even at night I'll sweat. So a breezy nightgown might do the trick. This one  is pretty simple, not so much frilly but it does the trick of being able to breathe. For those who want a bit more frills, nightgown number two might be the one for you.

What else does a loli need in her room? A place for all her dresses, skirts, and everything else right? A wonderous place for storage. But.... your closet is not the answer? No, a dresser is! Pink dresser rules! But for the more gothic and classical lolis you might enjoy this lovely number.

So I'll be doing more of these Web Loli posts. But I was inspired to do this one by the comment from PetiteTomoyo a couple of entries back. Her grandmother gave her some night gowns and I thought "What else do lolis need for bed time?" So what do other lolis need for bed time? Tell me.

Until next time,
Beckers  <333

Ps. Ya'll know the drill, nothing is mine unless stated.

Lolita inspiration

As you know, when you write, you have to be in the moment of inspiration. But what inspires you?  Looking at other outfits or reading your favorite zine? I can tell you what inspires me though. Youtube. I'm not kidding. Youtube has some great , and not so great, videos of lolitas. Some are vlogs but most that I find are people who want to learn about the lolita fashion or little documentaries of the fashion itself.

IMF Local Feed series had a special webisode about lolita fashion where the host met Nana Kitade, a lolita herself. She was dressed in a punk lolita outfit with a bit of sweet charm. It was pretty cute in my opinion. She took him (and the viewers) on a store tour of Btssb's secret shop *insert awe here*. The host, whose name I cannot find, gets to talk to not only her but other lolitas who live and vist there as well. I've watched this video many times and I can't get over the fact on how amazing the store is!

RosieOs is youtuber and a blog spot blogger who frigging rules! Even though her blog mostly in spanish, she has a full english channel on youtube. She talks about lolita items in her wardrobe and the cuteness that she goes to. She went to Fantaisies Dans Le Monde Des Reves and you might have seen her there. Check her out cause she is an AP girl and is here to rock your world.

Shelby Cloud is this sweet vlogger who talks about all the lolita issues from coordinating your outfits to self esteem. It seems that she's like all the bloggers except she uses her voice instead of typing out words. She's very lovely and I'd kill to have that wardrobe.

The last three are documentaries about the fashion itself. This one is about the girls who wear the fashion as is this one as well. They both showcase lolitas in a positvie light and setting. The girls are sweet and polite, they use what little on screen time they have to their advantage and their outfits are soooooo cute! :3 Frilly in the City is also a cute little documentary about lolita fashion that is totally worth watching.

So take some time and watch some videos. You'll see something you'll like.
Until next time,
Beckers <333

Ps. These videos aren't mine, just linking them for exposure.

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Lolita outside of meetups



So a few days ago I asked my mom if I could go to her workplace in Lolita. Now it would be cool to tell you that she said yes and I went and everyone loved it. That would be a dream come true. But unfortunately, she said no. I then asked the stupid question, why? Her respone; She wasn't ready to be seen with me in lolita. "It's too new and will attract alot of stares" - My mom.

And to an extent, she's right. If you around and ask people you aren't friends with if they know lolita, they will probably say no. Not many know what it is. Heck where I live, barely anyone even likes clothing outside of Hot Topic and Areopostale. We're an odd community. But lets say that a bright pink cloud of fluff walked into the school. What would be said? There might be some rude comments. There might be some laughs. Hell, there might be some people who might acutally try to dirty you up! But there are a few who would be all AWWWWWW over your outfit.

But is it really worth the risk? Do you risk time and money just to have it thrown back into your face that your different?

At my school, it's not worth the risk. Too much dirt, not enough room for pettis and if your different at my school, your more likely to be harrassed by peers. It's horrible but true. So I won't wear lolita to school, except maybe to dances or on half days. But that's my choice and don't let it deter you from wearing it everywhere you'd like to. I'd wear it food shopping if I could but sadly, I do that with my mom as well. So no loli outside of meetups just yet. But I think I'm wearing her down. She does show a more positive reaction when I mention it and the fact that it's modest, she adores!

So tell me, where do you wear lolita? And how do you keep the mess away from it?
Until next time,
Beckers <333

Ps. No pictures are mine unless stated. If this is yours and you wish for me to remove it, please contact me.

Saturday, August 7, 2010

For my buddeh Lucky.

My friend, Lucky, is off to college this year. So in return, since she doesnt want a gift, I am giving her a polyvore style blog entry for the whole internet to see! So what would my bud where if she were lolita?



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She's going to college and will be walking alot so flats might do her some good.
Lucky, I am so happy for you and I wish you all the best. One day I know your going to make a name for yourself. So good luck and we'll talk soon.
For the readers, Lucky will eventually be making a guest apperance on here to talk about college and photography. If you have a question for her, leave it in the comment section and I'll try to get her to answer them.
Until Next time,
Beckers <333

Ps. I did make this polyvore so no using it unless you ask first.

This or That?

Now the community has been always on the bench about replicas. Some yay!,  some are neutral, and some can't stand them. So what would you rather wear? This or that

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What we have here are two very similar dresses. Now I can't go into detail about the similarities and differeneces cause I don't own either dress (I am in the process how ever of the getting the replica). I will eventually show you the replica when it comes in...eventually. But the pictures don't show much of a difference. The lace at the bottom is different. While AP's is pink the replica (made by Dream of Lolita) has white lace. The ruffles also seem to be different. The replica seems to have lace ruffles while the original has ruffles out of fabric. That might be the picture but unless I can examine both in real life, I can't say much *sigh*

So tell me, are replicas worth the money saving offer? Did the replicas you buy acutally deliver? Or is better to throw down the 200 bucks for the real deal? Leave your intresting or creative respones BELOW! And who ever can guess where that came from gets to choose a topic for me to write about :)

Until next time,
Beckers <333

PS. No pictures are mine unless stated so.

Friday, August 6, 2010

The Scale *insert dramatic music here*



Now weight is a semi touchy subject for me. My dad has called me fat on a few occasions. Yes he says he's trying to help but it doesn't really work when he critizies my eating. But that's beside the point. The point is that when I weighed myself a few days ago (like Friday), I came to about 175 lbs. Now the scale we have is craptastic and yes I'll admit, I have gained weight over the year but...that much? That's 25 lbs from the beginning of the school year! Surely it must have not been that much? But there are many causes for weight gain.

Stress:
Stress happens. It's in little kids. It's in young adults. It's in adults as well. Stress, well for me, caused me to freak out so much that I would eat to make myself feel better. Food clamed me but went straight to my thighs >.< So when your stressed try stay away from food. Go for a walk. Watch some mind numbing televison. Talk about something with your friends/ family. Just don't eat! It goes straight into the fat.

Depression:
Now this might be a touchy subject for some. Now people cannot say I don't know about the effects of depression, cause I do. I'm on Prozac right now. This medicine, even though it might not be likely, can cause weight gain! I did start gaining weight when I took it so it might be it. But some of the fat is mine. Now just untreated depression can do the same thing stress does and casue the person to eat to make themselves feel better.

Boyfriend/Girlfriend:
You might think "He/she is so perfect! How can he make me gain weight?" Well it all goes back to stress. Relationships can cause more stress than you think. Your always worrying that he/she won't like your outfit, you got something in your teeth, you gotta talk to him/her all the time, etc. You get my point right? Good :3
Now this might cause you to eat more unconciously but most likely you'll stop eating to try and look good for your other. But how does that make you gain weight? Without it's regualr dosage of food, your metabolism will begin to slow down. That being said, if you still eat the same amount, less of it will turn to energy and more will turn to fat.

School Lunch:
This is just a gimmie right here. Everyone knows about the controversy that schools are having with their lunches. If you don't read this article about what school lunches do to your body. Most school lunches are high in salt, sugar, and fat. All those fries will go to your thighs! The other side of the issue is (well at least at my school) that the healthy lunches are limited and very nasty. The salad is limp and going bad. The greens look to have been cooked in oil. Fruits are dirty and really bruised. It's hard to eat helathy when your options are so limited.

So that's it basically. Those are a few things that have made me and probably others gain weight. I stopped eating school luch but I still have a way to go before I fit into brand.
Until Next time,
Beckers <333

Ps. What makes you gain weight? And how do you lose it/keep it off?
Pss. No pictures or articles are mine unless stated.

Welcome and Hiya

Hello World. My name is Becky. And this is my blog.

(Not the greatest pic of me)

Your probably wondering what the hell it's about? Well, this blog is a loli blog but not entirely. You see many women today deal with obesity. I am one of them. This will be my journey into the world of loli and the story of how I lose the weight that I need to. But before I actually post, I have three things to say.



1. Don't let brand get you down.
Brands like Angelic Pretty and MMM are always going to make small sizing becasue their biggest consumer, japanese girls, are smaller in size. Don't be discouraged in wearing it. Just find your own brand and wear that. I love AP to death but never can really fit it. So, what am I going to do? The sane thing.



2. Replicas are your friend.
Big or small, short or tall, all brands are expensive. It takes me a year to save up to buy some items. (No job at the moment :[ ) But Egl Comm Sales usually takes that fear out of us. But even so, some of us cannot fit into the items for sale. But we still want to look like that! So where do we turn to? Replicas. Stores like Dream of Lolita and Kidsyoyo do many replicas of AP. They make them custom size if you order from Quiteland. If you buy from the regular site, I don't know if they do custom sizing. Still, if you can tell me! :3



And 3. Life is like a box of chocolates.
And that is true. But with all the cookie cutter boxes of chocolate out these days, you always know which one to go for. The round ones have cherries (ew x[  ), the longer ones are usually like crackers with a chocoalte coating, etc... You get my drift. So how does this relate to real life? Simple. You always are going to go for the safe option that you like, which in my case, is fine. But what would happen if you went to a different option? Would you like it? Would you hate it? You don't know until you try. We're all chocolate on teh outside but the inside, we are all different fillings.

So remember, be proud of who you are. You may not fit into brand. You may not be able to fit into the brand you want to. But you wanna know something? Your you. And that's what makes you special. So eat your chocolate or your fruit! Be your wonderful self!
Until next time,
Beckers <333

Ps: All photos were taken from google except the one of me. That one is mine. If you wish for me to delete your photo, please contact me and say so.